10 Things Horses Teach Us… About Opinions

By: Georgie Roberts (The Off Side)

Ponies and politics, two of the most important things in life.

And then, alas, there are pony politics, which is very different. They are also very unimportant, ironically, but passionately and loudly pursued. Us horse folk are renowned for our firm commitment to our opinions, and gosh darnit no evidence will change our minds - even when we occasionally land on our heads.

So here are ten things horses can teach us about opinions, having them, sharing them, and possibly - dare I say? - even changing them.

1. Opinions are like butt holes; everybody has one

The reality is that not everyone is all right, and not everyone is all wrong. Simply put with horses, you will never learn everything from someone and nothing from another, however much you might hate to admit it. I have seen top riders swallow their pride and get that natural horsemanship expert to come help them, I’ve seen the natural horsemanship expert ask another person for help, and you know what they both have in common? They are successful professionals. As Tim Minchin famously said, unlike your butt, you should thoroughly and frequently re-examine your opinions.

2. Choose the hill you are going to die on, because you just might

Overly committed to feeding that horse up? Loud and proud about how people should ride? Outspoken advocate of “just get on it”? Yeah. You should reconsider. Luckily with political opinions they stand minimal chance of physically humbling you - unless you are in the States on public health insurance, of course - but horses do not mind getting a point across. So before you insist your way is the only right way, you might want to consider the alternatives.

3. Opinions are like orgasms - only mine matters and I don’t care if you have one Just kidding, but not really. The things about opinions is that they are the lowest form of knowledge when based on what you think, and not on what is either true OR equally what is based on someone else’s experience. It is all too common to see a group of equestrians loudly talking AT one another as opposed to WITH one another, and that is because they aren’t seeking a common solution, but rather their own right to be heard. 4. We can disagree and be civil… Unless you like Appaloosas I personally am a fan of spots, but this is all too common in politics of any kind, and to an extent it isn’t entirely wrong in that while we should tolerate others’, we draw a line at those who just want to be gross (don’t do it). As soon as an opinion excludes an entire demographic, it might be on the wrong side of the discussion. Likewise, as soon as grace does not extend to other people’s lived experiences, we need to have a good think about what our objectives in the discussion are.

5. Just like in showing - separate the judge from the rosette It is easy to hate a judge for OBVIOUSLY choosing the wrong winner of a class. MORON. Especially when your horse only reared once (yes, personal experience). But it is actually very possible - especially in equestrian warfare - to separate their perspective from yours, and possibly (gasp!) accept a legitimate criticism. It does not make you a lesser person to congratulate someone who did the job better than you, nor to learn from an experience - rather the opposite. And if you want to ride a lot, losing is something you will become quite adept at! Luckily for losers, winners seldom get the opportunity to learn from their errors, whereas we do.

6. OMG ... DOES IT EVEN MATTER Some people think Arabs are better. Others prefer Warmbloods. If it doesn’t affect you, here’s the thing: they are entitled to their wrong opinion. Leave them be. You’ll never get where you are going if you stop to engage every person doing something weird, because guess what? THERE ARE A LOT OF THEM. ..... to read the full list of 10 reasons, visit page 38 of our October issue:


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